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I often ask myself this question: “When is the right time for my child to have a phone and use social media?” The truth is, there is no simple answer. Social media can be both an opportunity and a threat. As a parent, I do not want my child to enter this complex and sometimes dangerous world without awareness. At the same time, I do not want to be so strict that when they finally get the chance to use it, they cannot do so responsibly and thoughtfully.

Before anything else, I believe we need to fill their time with meaningful activities:

• Quality family time: playing, laughing, talking, doing projects together.
• Physical and creative activities: sports, music, painting, making things with their hands.
• Independent learning: reading books, articles, stories, and gaining real-life experiences.

These activities not only fill the gap that social media would occupy but also help children develop an independent and healthy mindset for when they finally enter the digital world.

In my view, social media can become part of a child’s life only when they have:

• Time management skills and self-awareness.
• The ability to recognize safe and appropriate content.
• Healthy relationships with family and real-life friends.

Until then, my focus is on creating real-life experiences, learning opportunities, and fostering creativity. Honestly, this path is challenging but necessary and worth it.

Disclaimer: I do not have children. I wrote this from the perspective of a tech enthusiast with a strong interest in digital well-being and the mental health of young people.